Renewed Marriage:
20 Next Steps
Listen without interrupting — Give your spouse time to process and speak, especially during disagreements (1 Cor 13:4a).
Wait with grace — Whether it’s waiting for change, healing, or getting out the door, respond without frustration (1 Cor 13:4a).
Serve without being asked — Do acts of service like making coffee or folding laundry to show daily kindness (1 Cor 13:4b).
Surprise them with small gifts or gestures — Kindness notices and responds to what brings joy (1 Cor 13:4b).
Celebrate their success — Cheer on your spouse’s wins without comparing yourself (1 Cor 13:4c).
Affirm their unique strengths — Highlight what they do well without wishing it were your own (1 Cor 13:4c).
Apologize first — Humility builds trust, even when you’re only partly at fault (1 Cor 13:4d).
Ask for their input — Show you don’t need to have all the answers and value their voice (1 Cor 13:4d).
Speak respectfully — Even in conflict, avoid sarcasm, eye rolls, or harsh tones (1 Cor 13:5a).
Use manners at home — Say “please” and “thank you” regularly (1 Cor 13:5a).
Prioritize their needs — Ask, “What can I do to make your day easier?” (1 Cor 13:5b).
Share the load — Don’t expect them to carry emotional or physical responsibilities alone (1 Cor 13:5b).
Take a breath before reacting — Step back and respond with calm instead of exploding (1 Cor 13:5c).
Forgive quickly — Release anger before it builds into bitterness (1 Cor 13:5c).
Don’t bring up the past — Let go of old arguments and don’t use them as weapons (1 Cor 13:5d).
Practice grace daily — Extend forgiveness freely and often (1 Cor 13:5d).
Be honest with kindness — Speak truth in love instead of harboring silent resentment (1 Cor 13:6).
Celebrate spiritual growth — Acknowledge how God is working in each other (1 Cor 13:6).
Pray together — Trust God together and protect your bond through prayer (1 Cor 13:7).
Keep showing up — Stay committed and hopeful, especially during hard seasons (1 Cor 13:7).
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